2410. The Sublime Importance of Listening to Others



At tutoring sessions with each student, don’t despise what he is telling you: it isn’t trifles. 

All that the student is worried about also concerns you as his tutor you are. 

Listen to him, patiently, with no hurry, maybe paraphrasing what he is telling you. 

When a person is an adolescent, he may get worried about many things he is discovering and encountering; he is starting to face up life afresh, as almost an adult, not like when he was a child; he is encountering himself. 

Listen, listen carefully, and ask him questions tactfully, with an excellent care. / Photo from: www photosof org. the picture above is just an illustration

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