2060. Treating teens



An adolescent, a teen may get confused by his own ways of conducting and replying to others: his family, his parents, his friends, his classmates… 

He is not a child anymore. This process of evolution takes years of time. 

When he realizes of all that can be at ten years in boys. He’s starting to become an adolescent. 

Because of all this confusion he tries to set a border between him and the others. 

For example when he’s ten years, he tends to shout: it’s a way to show that he isn’t a child any longer, but he is someone. 

His parents can become somewhat puzzled because of this behavior and this change. Yet they and his teachers should know what happens at adolescence and more specifically what is going on with that specific person. 

His adults ought to treat him as an adult: he has his own way of thinking, or he is creating it in some way. 

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