2066. Educating in honesty and sincerity



A key point in the education of teens is honesty and sincerity. 

For example: you’re writing on the chalkboard and a student throws a piece of chalk to the chalkboard. This is a serious and grievous occurring. 

Stop the class and ask who was it. 

I’m talking about real happenings, in this case about a colleague of ours. 

Likely nobody will say anything – let’s think this way. You get serious. Silence is very eloquent. Now you say you’ll find the student. You say that that student can come up to you out of the classroom and confess the truth. 

If the student appears, you’ve got to talk with him. Let him say what he thinks about that action. Likely too he’ll say it was something wrong and mischievous. 

Let him take an exit, I mean, believe in what he’s saying – the point is educating him also in honesty and sincerity: if he isn’t honest, it could happen he thinks he did wrong. 

Let him say why the thing is wrong or explain to him about your hard work and responsibility at educating them. 

I’ve seen another case when the teacher didn’t scold the kid, he just let him know about the dangerous thing which is to leave the school and get across the road – the responsible person will be you. Explain to him that you could go to jail, in case he would be hit by a car. In this real case too, in the end the student thanked the teacher (!). / Photo from: bobananneeclaydon com fall landscape

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