1979. The weight of positive motivation



Not only good and perfect grades (or marks) are the goal we as parents have to praise regards our children. 

We can set a good example because of our positive vision of our own job. 

As well they influence on our kids our praise because of effort, reckoning their struggle, positive motivation and positive stimuli. 

Better than a blow it is positive motivation (if they deserve it). / Photo: Ciudadano Kane, in Spanish. I don't know the original title in English: Citizen Kane?.

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