1543. Deserving teens' trust



Teens, adolescents are forming their personality, but often today from the exterior part or external image, both body and dressing, in an exaggerated way. 

They imitate other youngsters and often too feel not secure. 

Their traits have to do with getting bored, weakness, arrogance, etc. 

A tutor who has to treat adolescents have to learn and read about this period of crisis or change, plus treating them very tactfully, and praising their targets – sometimes they do not know if they have aimed correctly; they need and expect adults’ criteria and approval, more if the adult has achieved to deserve the teen’s trust. / Photo from: teen talk teens www nhs uk

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