1327. Kids like an adult listen to them



Teacher B said to teacher A, “Also there can be good humor at the tutoring sessions with the student or his family. 

You naturally – nothing special – show willingness to listen to the kid, and try to solve his problems, and get the most and best from him. Maybe one first question didn’t hit the target, so you ask for pardon and then you hit the right target with a second question. 

All of this is love of benevolence. 

Something must be set clear: boys should have a male tutor and girls a female tutor. 

In tutoring sessions, in the end, you and the kid could achieve intimacy: kids like to be listened to by an adult, they can say things about their families, ask you about a baby's origin, give vents to traumas, why they didn't study for the test, etc.” / Photo from: forloveofchildren wordpress com 

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