2072. Helping gain a nice self-esteem



Talking with our children is essential. 

We can make a nice positive comment whenever possible, “You helped out yesterday in our country house, and that’s good, you’re one of the eldest siblings.” 

That is a positive reinforcement, and the kid can get a positive view of himself for example at adolescence, when crises may appear. 

Obviously the thing isn’t praising all the time, but when necessary, and other times. / Photo from: helping out. gallery georgetown org

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