2068. Again father and son



Our son or one of them, or one of our daughters when a teen may have serious problems for making friends. 

 Here parents can do a lot. The kid should be treated as an adult, and this can be accomplished with our honesty and sincerity. 

 We can tell him things such as “I’m worried about that new friend” or telling him something we’re concerned about. It has nothing to do with telling the worries the parents may have, but the point is making the son to participate in some of our worries. 

 In other words we have to go right to the crux by being honest with our son. Just that. / Photo from: www businessinsider com au

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