1920. It's better to provide positive motivation



I’ve experienced that behind a bit disruptive student there is a family, and we have his parents, who can be so nice people. 

This has helped me to change the view and concept about the student – meeting his parents. 

Just he was an adolescent that showed a behavior typical and characteristic of a person that age. We’ll insist on adolescents later on. / Photo from: student praise. www yurtopic com

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