2245. What to do with selfish kids



We teachers notice some kids are selfish and egoist, right? 

They loan nothing and do not want to make any compromise; they seek themselves, and that’s it. 

In the end they stay lonely, and are despised by their classmates. 

We teachers (and their families!!) ought to help them, little by little. For some kids it works to let them know they’re selfish, with other students we have to teach small good habits, like short-termed goals, at tutoring sessions or talking with them at our office or teacher room. 

So we have to let them know they’re egoist, but very tactfully, and this latter thing is of paramount importance. / Photo from: soccer_graphic1 www cunard ednet ns ca

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